Is ‘G’-spot a reality or myth? Does it really exist? Why is my wife’s vagina not having a ‘G-spot location?
Recently, I have been receiving several calls, sms and mails about the mystery of ‘G’-spot. So, I thought it would be nice to revisit it for the lovers of this mysterious spot. In this article we would unravel the myth for the benefit of our readers. For many married couples, when the honeymoon is over, sex becomes a boring routine. At such times, the urge to make love often gives way to the tendency to view sex as just a marital commitment. The reason is that most couples make the error of assuming that lovemaking can be exciting and enjoyable only at the initial stage of their relationship.
The truth is that to keep up the excitement in their sex lives, married couples will have to go out of their way to discover new methods to spice it up. For every couple that has been together for some time and has gone the extra mile to try out a variety of sexually stimulating experiences, lovemaking is guaranteed to become more thrilling and adventurous than it used to be at the early stage of marriage. One of the ways to achieve this is through the stimulation of the ‘G’ spot. And from the countless of questions flowing in, many couples still do not know the technicality of the instrument of this ‘G’- spot.
Originally named after the German gynaecologist, Ernst Grafenberg, who first described it in 1944 and theorised its existence, this ‘sacred spot’ has engaged the attention of sex scientists for more than a thousand years. Grafenberg described it as an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina that ‘swells out greatly at the end of orgasm.’
The G-spot can be found on the front wall of the vagina. It is made of erectile tissues and often enlarges when stimulated. If properly stimulated, it can cause women to experience high levels of sexual arousal and then, reach a powerful orgasm. If a husband wants to find out whether his wife has one or not, the best way to do this is to try and feel for an area that’s rough, a bit like a walnut, rather than smooth and silky like the rest of the vaginal wall.
For some women, stimulation of the G-Spot creates a more intense orgasm than can be achieved through stimulation of the clitoris. But it is important to note that not all women can experience orgasm through stimulation of the G-spot.
The female G-spot is surrounded by controversies and conflicting theories. To some people, especially women who think it is essential to achieving orgasm, there is far too much evidence to deny its existence. To others, it is simply non-existent. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm. For many women, it’s a highly sensitive, highly erotic area that provides hours of pleasure. For others, it’s a twisted bit that, when touched too much, creates an overwhelming sensation of needing a wee.
There are some debates about what the G-spot actually is. Some researchers say that the G-spot is the urethral sponge, also referred to as the female prostate. The urethral sponge is a cushion of tissue that sits against the vaginal wall and surrounds the urethra. The fact that the Skene’s glands (responsible for female ejaculation) are contained in the urethral sponge supports this theory. Another line of thinking is that the G-spot is simply the back end of the clitoris. This theory is supported by the fact that the clitoral nerves extend along the vaginal walls and into the body.
The truth may be somewhere in the middle as the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerve are closely interconnected. Unless you’re a scientist, this shouldn’t even matter much anyway. In the end, all that matters is knowing how to find and stimulate the G-spot.
To give a ‘G’ spot stimulation, sex experts recommend inserting the forefinger to about the second knuckle and making a ‘come here’ motion towards the front vaginal wall. While performing this, a husband needs to experiment with pressure and length of stroke to find out what feels best for her. It’s important that she is sexually aroused first and it is also worth noting that since many ladies’ sensitivity varies throughout the month because of their cycle and hormonal variation, partners should be very observant.
During stimulation and caressing, the first sensation might be the need to want to go and wee, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall of the bladder, so the bladder is being pushed and excited. So, before a couple engage in ‘G’ spot stimulation, the wife can check out by making sure her bladder’s empty first, then seeing how it feels. The first couple of times, it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance is more than worth it.
Do most women feel their ‘G’ spot is being stimulated during vagina penetration? Well, sometimes some do but this depends on the size and exact location of their G-spot, and it also depends on the sexual position such couples engaged in at that time, the depth of the thrusting and the firmness of the vagina. All these have a part to play, so therefore a woman may or may not be able to feel her ‘G’ spot stimulation during intercourse.
Some women say they ejaculate when their G-spot is stimulated. Research has shown that approximately 10 per cent of women expel between 9ml and 900 ml of fluid from the urethra during arousal and orgasm and that the G-spot is the equivalent of the male prostate. Remember
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